There are often times in your walk of life, you need to make decisions that will change your life. It might start with an outside thought that begins to develop each time you think about it. There are times when you may have a dream that you see yourself in a different situation than the one you are in now. Often times you may have a conversation with someone and they may say something that triggers an understanding in you which hits you like a ton of bricks....Oprah calls this an AH HA moment!

Well, we have given this some thought as to how to approach these crossroads in your life's walk. First cut out the background noise in your life. No one can hear anything with that noisy static in the background. For those of you who have a problem doing this here is a technique. Use the element that the Creator has placed on this planet for clarity. It is also what most of the planet and yourself is made up of....WATER! When most of us think about a vacation we think about going somewhere around water. It is one of the elements of this earth that brings peace to our spirit thereby opening the door for clear thinking.

We understand that you might not be able to get to your nearest beach or lake taken your busy schedule. So let's do the next most convenient thing.... a bath. Not just a regular bath for cleansing we mean a spiritual bath for clarity and direction.

Create a time where you can take your bath and go to sleep without being disturbed. When we mean undisturbed we mean no talking to anyone. Remember you will not be alone you will be with your spirit. Here are the steps we have come up with which should assist you in this process of clarity and direction. Remember you get out of this what you put into it.

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Perfume: get a new bottle of perfume that you like...remember you are not impressing anyone. Go to the dollar store they have the really good perfumes for a DOLLAR!

Bath Salts and Bubble bath: this is optional but it works very well!

Candle: Get a white or a cream colored candle. This scented or unscented candle should last at least eight hours long. Only get one candle. You want to focus your energy not confuse it with multiple candles.

Music: Get some soothing music that you like. Please don't get anything with too much singing and harsh sharp instrumentals, it might create static thoughts.

Affirmation: Take time to write down your affirmation of what you want to have clarity about. If you don't know what you want clarity about then ask for more direction. We generally write down a prayer or psalm that best suits the request.

 

Preliminary Step: Please take a shower before taking a spiritual bath. The focus of the bath should be on your spirituality not cleansing.

Step 1: Wash your bed linen and towels before you begin. It would be beneficial if you were to use as much white as possible, for example white bed sheets and white sleeping attire but this is not mandatory.

Step 2: Enter your bathroom by spraying perfume and saying your affirmation or prayer..Note: Bring everything you will need into the bathroom, because at this time you should try to keep the bathroom door closed.

Step 3. Add your bath salts/bubble bath to the tub before you run your water. Run your water at moderate strength and at a temperature that is steams the entire bathroom. Note: Please do not make the water too hot that you can't tolerate the heat.

Step 4: Place the portable CD player away from the tub and begin playing your music.

Step 5: Slowly get into the tub and take three deep breaths.

Step 6: Place candle at the foot of the tub and light it. Note: At this time the lights should be off in your bathroom. The only light should be coming from the candle. Try to focus your attention on the candle as much as possible.

Step 7: Try to focus your attention on the candle as much as possible and take as many deep breaths in order to relaxe yourself. Relax your muscles and let the water take you into a peaceful scenario in your mind. Attention: your bath should take approximately 1-3 hrs.

 

Step 8: Leave the tub and while your body is still slightly damp apply moisturizer throughout your body and apply more perfume on yourself.

Step 9: Take the candle from the tub area and bring it into your bedroom and place it on your nightstand or near your bed.

Step 10: Say your affirmation prayer and go straight to sleep.

Step 11: Right down what dreams you had as soon as you get up!

If you would like a more in-depth spiritual dream assessment or counseling please feel free to call us at 214-942-1717 to make an appointment.

 

The world that we are living in today has changed dramatically within the last couple of years. It seems that we are more in danger of serious threat from abroad, yet we spend most of our time allowing negative people and negative thoughts to control our lives. Since we have been Dallas,TX we have encountered many people, primarily women; who are walking around like toxic containers.

They hate their jobs, they hate their mates, they hate themselves, and here is where it become even more dangerous; they hate you! I have given this deep contemplation and have come to a conclusion with a plan for a solution.

Hater: Don't be so quick to hate the Hater, for she is a victim of her perceived unfulfilled life. She wasn't always this way, she became this way due to years of trying to create a life that she envisioned for herself. She is constantly searching for that life, and hates anyone that she thinks is even remotely living her envisioned life. This conflict causes her ego to become inflamed, and therefore she punishes her co-workers, her children, her husband and her friends. A Hater is proned to throwing hateful temper tantrums. Although she is throwing a tantrum, this is by no means a childlike attack, she knows just what to say and do, to hurt her intended victim. What she doesn't realize is that she is like a match, creating a Hate fire around everyone she comes in contact with; until eventually she becomes the victim of another Hater. It is a vicious cycle of negativity, brought on by a perceived unfulfilled life.

Although it is very hard to see, but the Hater is actually serverely victimized by depression. She feels that her life is hopeless, and she can't find a way to make it better. She eventually alienates herself from anyone who is positive and good, and submits to just living a pessimistic life with very little pleasure and great mental pain.

SOLUTION: Change the way you perceive your life! Growing up in popular culture has left us with life goals that leaves no room for spiriutal development. Always remember,we are spirits having a human experience. For those who may be mistaken, let me clarify. I am not talking about religion, I am talking about spiriutality. A peaceful spirit can be acheived without a peaceful religion, but a peaceful religion cannot be achieved without peaceful spirits. You must think bigger and create a world for yourself that includes your spiritual development and deals with the truth. WOMAN you are beautiful and extra-ordinary, why envision a life for yourself that is just ordinary. Create a life far more greater than your perceived life, but this time include your spirit in your voyage of peace. Depression is the spirit's way of saying to the mind THINK BIGGER!

If you would like a more in-depth spiritual assessment or counseling, please feel free to call us at 214-942-1717 to make an appointment.